What to Expect During Your Child’s Therapy Consultation

Thank you for scheduling a consultation! We know choosing a therapist for your child is an important decision. This guide answers many of the questions parents commonly have so that we can spend your consultation learning about your child and determining whether we’re the right fit.

Please read through all of the information on this page to learn about how our team approaches child therapy and what you can expect during your consultation call, as well as throughout your time working with us.

During the Consultation Call

We will have 15 minutes together. This call is meant to be a quick call to make sure you and the therapist feel that working together will be the right fit. The therapist will ask the following or something similar:

  • What brings you to therapy?
  • What are your primary concerns for your child?
  • What changes are you hoping to see?

 

If we determine that we’re a good fit, we’ll schedule a 60-minute intake appointment where we’ll discuss your child’s history, current concerns, strengths, family dynamics, and goals in much greater detail.

Therapist working with a child during a session representing child therapy using play therapy to support emotional growth in Lakewood (Belmar) and Arvada, Colorado

Parent Involvement

Parent involvement looks different for every child and depends on their age, developmental level, and treatment goals. Parent involvement may include:

  • Parent check-ins before or after sessions
  • Parent-only sessions when clinically appropriate
  • Family sessions
  • Coaching parents on strategies to support their child at home
  • Individual time for your child during sessions

 

Your therapist will discuss the level of parent involvement that will best support your child’s growth during the intake session or as therapy progresses.

Parent Communication Outside of Sessions

We value collaboration with parents.

  • Brief questions or updates are welcome.
  • Phone calls or consultation outside of scheduled sessions that last longer than 15 minutes are billed at your therapist’s prorated hourly rate.

 

If there are important updates about your child’s behavior, emotions, or experiences, please share them with your therapist. Whenever possible, these conversations are best had when your child is not present so they can avoid feeling embarrassed or ashamed by what is being discussed.

Therapy for Children Often Looks Different Than Therapy for Adults

Children process emotions differently than adults.

Rather than relying only on conversation, therapy may include:

Children often communicate through play before they are able to put their experiences into words. Through these activities, your therapist helps your child develop emotional awareness, learn healthy coping skills, regulate emotions, and gradually build the ability to express what they are experiencing.

Progress in therapy is often gradual. Sometimes the changes are subtle at first, but over time those small changes can build into meaningful growth. When there are strategies that may be helpful at home, your therapist will discuss them with you or invite you in briefly after a session.

“We Just Played Uno!”

It’s common for parents to ask their child what they did in therapy and hear, “We just played Uno,” “We colored,” or “We just played games.”

That doesn’t mean therapy wasn’t productive.

Children often communicate, process emotions, and practice new skills through play rather than through direct conversation. While it may look like “just playing,” your therapist is intentionally helping your child build trust, practice emotional regulation, strengthen problem-solving skills, increase frustration tolerance, improve communication, and process difficult experiences in developmentally appropriate ways.

It’s also important to remember that your child may simply not recognize all the therapeutic work that was happening, or they may choose to keep parts of their session private. Having a space that feels safe and is truly theirs is an important part of the therapeutic process.

You can trust that even when therapy looks like play, meaningful work is happening beneath the surface.

Your Child Leads the Process

Children heal best when they feel emotionally safe.

  • Your child is not expected to talk about difficult experiences before they are ready.
  • Your therapist’s first priority is building trust and rapport.
  • Your child will have a voice in what they share, how they share it, and when they share it.
  • Pressuring children to talk before they are ready is generally not helpful and can slow the therapeutic process.

When children feel emotionally safe rather than pressured, they are more likely to engage meaningfully in therapy and experience lasting growth.

Therapist and teen girl in conversation representing supportive counseling, connection, and mental health guidance

Confidentiality

Creating a safe, trusting relationship is one of the most important parts of therapy.

Mandatory Reporting

Therapists are legally required to protect the safety of their clients and others.

In Colorado, therapists are mandatory reporters and are required to report:

Therapists may also need to break confidentiality if there are concerns about:

Whenever appropriate, we will discuss these situations with you and your child before taking action unless doing so would increase the risk of harm.

Fees & Insurance

Each therapist is in-network with different insurance plans.

We have partnered with Mentaya to help clients use their out-of-network benefits to save money on therapy. Use this tool below to see if you qualify for reimbursement for my services.

Thank you for reading through this information! We are looking forward to the consultation call with you!